adminLetter from Mumma
Dear Sweet Mama,
Oh, honey, raising a daughter is one of the greatest joys and most tender challenges we’ll ever face. There’s nothing quite like watching that little girl of yours grow up, seeing glimpses of the woman she’s becoming. She’s a masterpiece in progress, and goodness, don’t we want to do everything we can to make sure she grows into someone who’s confident, courageous, and unshakably herself?
But I know how easy it is to worry. The world out there can be tough, and it’s tempting to try to shield her from every stumble and heartache. I’ve learned, though, that our job isn’t to keep her from falling—it’s to teach her how to get back up, stand tall, and keep on walking in her God-given purpose.
So today, let’s sit down together, pour ourselves a cup of coffee, and talk about what it looks like to raise our daughters to be bold, brave, and beautiful in the truest sense of the word.
Love,Mumma
The Power of Confidence and Courage
Now, before we dive in, let me tell you what I’ve learned about these two words. Confidence doesn’t mean she’ll always have the right answers or that she’ll never feel afraid. And courage? Well, that’s about stepping forward even when she’s scared out of her boots.
We’re raising girls in a world that’ll try to tell them who they should be, what they should look like, and how they should act. But, Mama, let’s remind our girls that their worth isn’t wrapped up in what others think—it’s in who God made them to be. If we can plant that truth deep in their hearts, they’ll have a foundation that nothing can shake.
How to Raise a Daughter Who’s Fearlessly Herself
1. Speak Truth Over Her Life
Let me tell y’all, words are powerful. The things we say to our daughters stick with them—sometimes longer than we realize.
Affirm Who She Is: Call out her strengths and character, not just her looks or achievements. Say things like, “You’re so kind,” or “I love how determined you are,” instead of just, “You’re so pretty.”
Share Scripture: Remind her that she’s fearfully and wonderfully made (Psalm 139:14). Let her know that God has big plans for her (Jeremiah 29:11).
Celebrate Her Efforts: When she tries something new or gets back up after a failure, cheer her on. Effort and resilience matter more than perfection.
2. Show Her What Confidence Looks Like
Y’all, our daughters learn so much by watching us. When they see us walk in confidence (even when we’re faking it), it gives them permission to do the same.
Be Honest About Your Struggles: Share times when you’ve been nervous or scared but pushed through anyway.
Set Boundaries: Teach her the power of saying “no” when something doesn’t align with her values.
Practice Self-Love: When you speak kindly about yourself and take care of your own needs, you show her that she deserves to do the same.
3. Help Her Discover Her Gifts
Every child has unique talents and passions, and part of our job is helping her uncover and embrace them.
Expose Her to New Experiences: Whether it’s sports, art, music, or science, give her the chance to explore what lights her up.
Encourage Her Passions: Even if her interests aren’t what you imagined, support them wholeheartedly.
Praise Her Uniqueness: Remind her that being different is a gift, not something to hide.
4. Prepare Her for Challenges
Life’s not always sunshine and roses, and our girls need to know how to navigate the hard parts.
Teach Her Resilience: When she faces setbacks, remind her that every failure is a stepping stone to success.
Role-Play Tough Conversations: Practice how to respond to peer pressure, criticism, or difficult situations.
Be Her Safe Space: Let her know she can always come to you, no matter what.
The Role of Faith in Raising a Fearless Girl
Mama, there’s no better gift you can give your daughter than a strong foundation of faith. Teach her to lean on God when she’s unsure, scared, or feeling small. Encourage her to pray for courage and wisdom, and remind her that she’s never alone.
One of my favorite verses to share with my girl is “Be strong and courageous. Do not be afraid; do not be discouraged, for the Lord your God will be with you wherever you go” (Joshua 1:9). Let’s help our daughters believe that deep in their bones.
Encouragement for the Journey
Mama, raising a confident, courageous daughter doesn’t mean she’ll never face doubts or fears. It means she’ll know how to rise above them. She’ll know how to lean into the strength God gave her and embrace who she truly is.
And you? You’re doing the best you can, and that’s enough. She’s watching you, learning from your love and your example. So keep speaking life over her, modeling bravery, and pointing her back to the One who made her. You’re planting seeds that’ll grow into something beautiful, I promise.
So let’s keep cheering on our girls, one day at a time. With a little love, a lot of prayer, and a whole heap of grace, they’ll become the strong, fearless women we know they’re meant to be.Love,Mumma
Letters to Mumma
What’s one way you encourage your daughter to be brave and confident? Share your ideas in the comments or tag me on social media—I’d love to hear your stories and cheer you on.
PS: Don’t forget to grab my “Raising Brave Girls Guide” for practical tips and tools to empower your daughter today!
